victor1 wrote:
Any other thoughts from anyone on this???
Have just come across this article, quite revealing ...
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The Art of Vaginal Fisting:
Explicit Instruction for Beginners
By T Teacher of the BDSM Lifestyle
I have been a Porn Performer with a specialty in The BDSM Lifestyle for several years, and fisting has been a specialty of mine for the past 10+ years. This article going to discuss the topic from the Male Fister and female fistee perspective, since that is where the vast majority of my experience lies. I am going to discuss vaginal fisting, saving anal fisting for another time. Fisting can be relatively easy to do as long as you have LOTS of patience, lubricate, and a relaxed and willing participate.
First, you MUST create an environment where BOTH the Fister AND the fistee feel comfortable, relaxed, safe, and secure. This is NOT the time to be barking out commands and ordering your sub to just shut up and take it. The first few times that I fist a new woman, I will sit down with her, talk to her and answer any questions that she might have. Also, I try to make sure she has watched me perform the act BEFORE we sit down to discuss doing it with her. It seems to be a MAJOR confidence builder when she can watch as I do it with another woman and see the pleasure she has while receiving it.
Next, I talk ALOT during my scenes. This is a time where I offer LOTS of praise, encouragement, and assurance to them. I have found that the best positions depends on the inside structure of a woman�s pussy, especially since every pussy that I have fisted is shaped differently. Generally, with the pelvis tilted slightly upward in the stirrup position works best for pussy fisting. (Also, it helps to SOME degree if the woman has given birth vaginally.) The ass is usually a little more flexible and friendly than the pussy.
The next two things are the MOST important aspects of fisting. First, you MUST have a TON of lube available. Next, you cannot be in a hurry. Start by wearing latex gloves (sold in pharmacies) and coating your entire hand and fingers with lube. Astroglide or Slippery Stuff" is the best for vaginal fisting. Also, put the lube on, around and inside the woman�s pussy. Remember to continue offering words of encouragement to her. I start by running my index finger around the inside the vagina for awhile. Then I slowly place two fingers inside her. Usually by the time I'm ready to insert more, she is no longer scared and wondering if I'm going to hurt her. If I sense that she is still tense or concerned, I just slow down and all her to become more comfortable and relaxed. Of course, a woman should be encouraged to express her anxiety, express pain or ask that the stimulation stop.
Here is some important information about inserting more fingers. My fingers are extremely long and my closed fist is fairly big. But there is a secret to fisting. I make my fingers into the shape of a funnel. In other words, I tuck my thumb behind my closed fingers. So I'm really inserting all of my fingers, including my thumb, slowly into the woman vagina. Generally, you will feel the vaginal muscles begin to relax till your entire hand slides easily inside. Usually, the first few times you will not be able to form a closed fist. But don't worry. With a little practice and a willing partner, you will be able to do so.
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Your Perverted Friend
T