Yungt33nluvr

I just registered this morning to let you all know that yungt33nluvr (my Husband) went into the hospital yesterday morning after another "attack".

Right now he is in intensive care in a coma, and the doctors do not know what is going on with him. He presented with stroke like symptoms, but they have ruled out an actual stroke.

I know he spent a lot of time here, and most of his bookmarks lead to links in this forum, so I thought I should let you all know.

Thank you for telling us.
My thoughts are with you, as I am sure are everyone elses. We all hope he recovers quickly - please keep us informed, if you have the time during a doubtless worrying and frustrating period.

AltonTowers wrote:Thank you for the reply and well wishes Alton. I should be sleeping or at the hospital with him, but I am sitting here at home awake and restless.

I hope he has a full and quick recovery.
Sorry you all have to go through this.

It seems to me that you had troubles both recently...

I am very embarrassed for him and for you, I wish him a speedy recovery.

If we can help, thank you for keeping us informed.

Best regards.
Baptiste.

you have shown us great compassion and done that which not many wives would do.
We , your husbands friends, thank you for letting us know of this occurance.
Please know that our prayers and thoughts go out to you and him during this difficult time.
Be strong for him and weather this through, only god knows the will of god, and all will be made clear with time.
prepare for the worst, pray for the best, accept what you recieve, it's all any of us can do...

I hope he recovers fully and quickly for yours and his sake. Warm wishes being sent your way.

whokarez wrote:Thank you all for the replies and well wishes. As for quoting whokarez, I will say that my husband and I have WAY too much in common....our love for teen girls. I have been lurking unregistered here for quite some time, so I know that this forum was his second home, so it was just the right thing to do to let you all know. I have been wanting to register here for well over a year, and this just **** me to do so.

There is no change in his condition and he is still in a coma. The doctors in all their infinate wisdom have no clue what's going on...all tests are normal. EKGs, Ultrasounds of both his Carotid Arteries and heart, and multiple MRI's show nothing wrong.

They (the doctors) are not acting very confident, even though he is in one of the best hospital's in California (Loma Linda), and this has me prepared for the worst. I have nothing to do but sit sleepless for over 2 days in a motel when I'm not at the hospital and hope and pray and wait for my cell to ring and for someone to tell me that he has come out of the coma, and that he will be okay.

Sorry to hear. I hope he recover soon.

I spent 8 hours at the hospital today just sitting by his side staring at him. The doctors finally told me to go home...home/home, and that they would call if something happens. It's almost a three hour drive back home, but I did as they suggested. Cats need to be fed, and motels cost $$$.

I would like to thank you all for the prayers and hopes. My Gigi thread is going to keep me busy and my mind off things. It may not be rational to a lot of you, but it's busy work, and relaxing for me. I will continue updating as/if I receive any more news.

Wow, I am very sadened by the news, YTL'sW. Very sad. My heart goes out to you as you wait...and to YTL. I do gnot gknow him well, but I did have a gnice exhange with him awhile back, and he seemed like a gnice guy.

God Bless him and you, YTL'sW. I will say a prayer tonight for his speedy recovery, and for some strength for you in this very trying time.

Grimble Krumble

A very close friend of mine went through the same ordeal not very long ago. You have my full sympathies and warm wishes.

Grimble Krumble wrote:

I see that you gave him some good advise a few months ago when I was in the hospital for a month. Which reminds me...I wonder if I should post a response there and revive a dead page 2 thread Anyway, I digress, and thank you sir for your kindhearted words and prayers.

Solomon wrote:

Thank you Solomon. What was the outcome? As of this morning (Wednesday, there is no change. Still in coma as doctors try and figure out what the hell is going on with him. I am going to try and get some more sleep today, and who knows, I may sleep the entire day away. I'm exhausted.

Hello YTL's Wife -

First and foremost, my heart goes out to you during this trying time. I can't imagine how difficult it must be. Of course I was saddened by the news, and I also have to say that it was very thoughtful of you to come in here and share what is happening. Kudos to you.

Like many old-timers here I've interacted and corresponded with YTL in the past. Earlier this year (May?) I corresponded more with him by PM, as he was clearly very confused and very troubled about his feelings for you and your marriage. I have been in a similar place in the past and thought I'd share my own experience in the hopes that it would help him sort his own head out a bit. I do also remember that you were also having surgery and some physical problems -- I hope that you are now all healed up and healthy, by the way.

I saw what you posted earlier today in that thread he started regarding your situation earlier this year. You don't know me, but my advice would be to edit/delete your response, you shared some things there which should probably stay private IMHO. Your anger is of course understood though ... just keep in mind that he was confused and unhappy and yes, probably shouldn't have started that thread in the first place. Perhaps the mods/admins here would consider deleting the thread, or at least tuck it away somewhere where no one can see it for a while, or something. That's why I'm posting this here, and not there.

It also sounds like you have access to his account here, and his PMs? If you do, and if he saved them, then you know a lot about me. But if you have access to his account, you can edit/delete his posts in that thread, or just delete the whole thing with a mod's help.

Again, I don't blame you at all for being mad, you have every right to be, and that on top of the current situation must be even more frustrating ... its not like you can go talk to him (though the temptation to beat him over the head with a chair might be lurking huh). But really, my impression was that he was just "thinking out loud" if that helps. There's a big difference between posting such a thread in a big ol' anonymous forum, and actually doing/thinking it for real.

In the meantime, it sounds like there isn't much you can do for him right now, at least until the Doctors understand more. So the important thing you can do is take care of yourself. Which means try to forget that other thread for the time being, and if you can't, try not to personalize it ... I mean, don't blame yourself or get down on yourself. Might be good for you to go into "one day at a time" mode right now if you know what I mean. And hopefully you'll know more about his situation soon.

Feel free to PM me if you'd like, or if you'd like to take this offline/into email. I haven't been around very much here lately, but this kind of important stuff will draw me out quickly. And of course I'll send out whatever good energy I can muster up towards you both.


Take care.

RM

ramblin'man wrote:

Thank you RM, I took your advise, and deleted my post in the "other" thread, and will write a PM to you in the morning. I REALLY need to get myself together before I write anything else I think

Thank you, and look for a PM within a day or so. I was hasty to post, and as you said, I gave TMI about us.

I asked a Mod to delete or lock the other thread, as I do not have YTL's password, although if I look around enough, I'm sure I'll find it, but I don't want to snoop, and delete his thread.

Enough said...I'm sooooo very tired. Thank you oh so very much for your words of encouragement and advise.